Wanting to be saved is one of the most disempowering mindsets I have ever seen. You see it in religion. You see it in people who are waiting for someone to come in and have somebody or something else solve all their problems for them. You see it in people who think winning the lottery will solve everything overnight. Wanting to be saved is just stupid. I’m sorry. Putting your faith in anyone or anything other than yourself to be saved is just dumb. For those of you who truly believe The Rapture is coming, I would advise you to stop reading now because no offense, but the Rapture is just your naive attempt to think that everything is going to be okay just because you take the Bible word for word. If Christ was really coming back, wouldn’t he have come by now to save all the believers? He said something like, “This generation shall not pass and I will be back.” Stop waiting for that bus and start walking people.
If you want to be saved, you’re going to have to save yourself. You can ask for help, but the majority of the legwork is going to have to be done by you. That is just a fact. You have to make the moves to get where it is you want to be, not fate or chance. People who want to be rescued are purposely and exclusively playing the victim role. Why would anyone ever do that to themselves? Because it’s easy. It requires almost no effort to play the victim, but it requires a ton of effort to play the rescuer. And you are your own rescuer. Like I said, you can accept help, but don’t expect someone to reassemble your life for you. They have their own lives to work on. They can’t sit there and baby step you all the way to your better life. This isn’t kindergarten anymore.
Take authority over your own life. You are in charge here. It is your life to live and your consequences to bear, so why not make it a better life? Don’t spend your time sitting around waiting for salvation when you could be creating what it is you desire right now if you would only get off your ass and get moving. What is it that is holding you back? Your job? Your spouse? Just because those around you wish to play the victim role does not mean you have to do so as well. You are better off dropping those people out of your life anyway because they will do nothing but hold you back. The people you spend the most time with reinforce your belief system. If you are spending a lot of time with victims who never quite make anything meaningful happen in their lives, you will start to pick up on their bad habits. What you need to find are empowering people to surround yourself with. People who encourage you, not discourage you. People who aren’t afraid of the new you, a different you.
Playing the victim, waiting to be saved is just a naive fantasy. You can keep doing this and living the results of that mindset, or you can move up to taking control of your life. I’m so sick of people complaining about situations in their lives that they created and perpetuate. It is whiny, it is repetitive, it is bordering on insanity. If you create something, you should not be complaining about it. By complaining, you are only perpetuating the situation you don’t want in the first place. Why not work towards a new situation? Why not take steps to better yourself to get yourself into a better place? A place where you don’t need to be saved. You can wait at that bus stop all day, but if you don’t take the first step towards saving yourself, good luck finding someone who is willing to save you.
The very mindset creates victimization. You are throwing away your personal responsibility and placing it on something external that is supposed to come into your life and take your victim role away. I would say you have to pick yourself up by your bootstraps, but that would make me sound like a Republican. Which I am not. But the sentiment is true. You are responsible for your life, not anybody else. People can help you through your life, but the brunt of the work is yours to bear if you want a life that you can feel good about and can take authorship of. Stop whining and start taking action. I’m sure what happened in the past was horrible and you don’t think you’ll ever gain closure, but you live here in the present, people. You can change your recent past towards a new life in the next 90 days to shed this whole victim mentality and move towards a more empowered state, where you are the dictator of your life, the author. You decide what you do, what you don’t do. You have the power. You just have to realize it. And for God’s sake, stop waiting to be saved and start saving yourself.
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